picking up where a friend left off.

so i visited my friend's blog (as i do so almost ritualistically, i know i need a life) and she had, to my delight, written a new entry. however as i read her entry, my mood for the day changed, and i became unbearably aware of how much i agree with her on her views.

this is probably the most open i'm going to be about certain beliefs i hold dear, and i guess if you're here by chance, lucky you. anyway my friend's entry was about the modern man and his ways. how they are clever at winning a woman over, and then once that is done, their interest wanes.

i found myself in constant agreement with every line that i read, that she had hit the nail on the head on all counts. an important point she brought up was about men and sex and how sex is the thing that barely saves a relationship. at this juncture i was all "that's right babe! men suck! fuck them and their ever eager penises!"

yes i know, this is a poor attitude to adopt considering i'm in a relatively new relationship with a guy i'm very fond of. but it got me thinking, that no matter how in love a guy is with a girl, he still has one thing on his mind that will never change, that is he wants to fuck. and what happens when he can't get any can sometimes be pretty sad.

i've known too many girls who got dumped because of their refusal to give up their virginity or to continue having sex with their boyfriends. i mean how sad is that? is a relationship based on the amount of sex you're going to have? if that's the case, many a girl will find themselves getting constantly dumped and eventually they'll start believing that, sex indeed is the key.

don't get me wrong, i'm not the most wholesome girl on the planet. far from it i know (yes yes bring on the slut jokes) but like, i always feel sex is important but it's not the basis of a relationship and never should be. a girl's personality should never be second to her desire or ability to fuck you back.

okay. sorry if this seems sexist (with reference to my friend's entry title). i do know girls who just want to fuck all day too. but i'm sorry guys, as much as i love men, dudes sometimes are just such big fucking douchebags.

so please, if you have a girlfriend, or want to be with some girl, please be with her because you can see beyond her sexual capacity. don't make your girl feel like a prostitute that you can conveniently have sex with in the name of love and not look like a dick. it's just rude.